The Do or Don't decisions

Half of this blog entry ties into the other as far as the way I am feeling right now. It goes from "Do's" and "Don'ts" to lasting friendships.
When you're in a relationship you have the do or don't question you face every once in a while. For example, you have made plans to hang out with some of your close friends and your boyfriend is hanging out with his close friends, but some how your plans fall through.
Do you text him and make him feel guilty that you don't get to have fun with your friends even though he's having fun with his that he cuts his plans short with his friends to spend time with you or you DON'T do that and instead you just leave it be and be bored on a Friday night with no plans.
I always find myself caught in that place and on one hand I want my boyfriend to have fun but on the other I just can't seem to ever understand how no matter how hard I try I can just never seem to find the right time in the right place to get together with my friends and it really sucks.
I wish that I had friends who would text me or call me out of the blue just to catch up and trade stories on how our lives are going. Even if they can't hang out or I haven't seen them in a long while. Them calling me shows me that they still care.
Now I know some of you might be thinking that "o well the door swings both ways" and yes I know this. But I have tried doing that for a lot of my friends and I just got tired of having multiple no response texts for long periods of time and no one answering my phone calls or returning them for that matter that I gave up trying and I just figured that my true friends would com around eventually.


For any of my friends who read this remember that I love all of you, and don't want this blog to sound as mean as it does. But every once in a while would a simple hi how are you? text message or short call be too much to ask to know that you still consider me a friend. :-)